"The question is . . . which is
to be master- that's all."
An encyclopedia describes a scorpion as a
nocturnal arachnid that attacks and
paralyzes its prey with a poison injected by
the long, curved tail, used for both defense
and destruction. Its sting is sometimes
fatal.
People often draw back visibly when
someone says he or she was born in November,
murmuring, "Oh, you're a Scorpio!" either in
frank fear, or in awe and respect.
Sometimes there's also a giggle that
obviously refers to the legendary Scorpio
passion. Scorpios are fed up with these
reactions to their Sun sign, and who can
blame them? But they are ruthless and
dangerous, right?
Wrong. It depends. First, you'd better
learn how to recognize the sign. In
self-defense perhaps-or because you seek a
really superior human being.
Scorpio likes to travel incognito. Thanks
to his well-controlled nature, he usually
succeeds, but there are a couple of short
cuts which will make it easier to penetrate
his disguise at midnight or at noon.
Look at the eyes. They can be green,
blue, brown or black, but they'll be
piercing with hypnotic intensity. Most
people feel nervous and ill at ease under
Scorpio's steady gaze. You'll have to break
the spell and look away first. He'll
outstare you every time. It's a foolproof
identification of the Pluto personality.
Scorpio eyes bore deeply into you,
mercilessly, as if they're penetrating your
very souL They are.
Next, listen to him speak. The tone can
be velvety soft, husky or sharply cutting,
the speech slow and measured or clipped and
staccato, but what he says will never be
self-effacing. Scorpio has total ego. He
knows what he is and he knows what he is
not, and nothing anyone else thinks will
change this knowledge. Insults roll right
off his back, and compliments don't move him
a fraction of an inch. He needs bo one to
tell him his vices or his virtues. At best,
he'll calmly agree with your appraisal; at
worst, he'll suspect your motives.
The next time you're with a group of
people, bring up a discussion of Sun signs.
Mention that, with a little practice, it's
fairly easy to recognize them. When someone
fastens you with a hypnotic gaze, and states
with supreme confidence, "You can't guess
what I am," say firmly, "You're a Scorpio."
It may be the first time he's ever blinked.
But his stare will waver only for an
instant, and he'll quickly regain the cool
composure he exhibited before you exposed
his careful disguise. If you ever come
across a chattering Scorpio whose eyes
wander, chalk him up as an astrological
exception as rare as the dodo bird. There
are some November people with heavy
planetary influences of restlessness in
their nativities, but you're trying to leam
to recognize the typical Scorpio. You'll
find very few of the nervous kind. The
nature can be modified by other natal
influences, but only slightly.
Most Pluto people have powerful
physiques. The features are noticeably heavy
or sharp, and clearly drawn, and the nose is
quite prominent, sometimes beak-shaped.
Ordinarily, the complexion is very pale,
almost translucent, and the brows are heavy
and knit together over the bridge of the
nose. There's a crackling, electric vitality
about the very presence of a Scorpio that
gives him away. As quiet as he tries to be,
such a vital force can't be hidden
completely. The males will have a heavy
growth of hair on the arms and legs, often
with a reddish cast. Most Scorpios have
darkish hair and eyes, but don't overlook
the frosty blonde types, of which Grace
Kelly and Billy Graham are excellent
examples. Frosty on the outside, that is.
The poised surface calm of the Pluto
character is carefully designed to hide the
boiling inner nature.
Such mastery of the personality has to be
envied. No matter how his emotions are
stirred, youll rarely see them reflected on
Scorpio's frozen, immobile face. These
people proudly and consciously practice a
blank expression. They command their
features to remain firm, and their features
obey. (They wouldn't dare disobey a
Scorpio.) You'll seldom see Scorpio give
himself away by blushing or flushing,
frowning or grinning. Smiles are rare, but
genuine. The body follows the same orders as
the face. There will rarely be any jumping,
sudden starts or nervous mannerisms.
He'll never flinch with embarrassment or
swell up with pride. Reaction is always kept
at a bare minimum, because Scorpio's art is
to probe your nature and motives
relentlessly, while remaining inscrutable
himself, and he's an expert at it.
It's important to remember that there is
a particular type of Scorpio who moves and
speaks rather quickly, and appears to have
an open, friendly manner. Look deeply into
his eyes and really think about some of his
past actions, his true behavior. He's really
just playing a game with all his happy talk.
Inside, he's as tough and determined as the
more typical, poised Pluto people. Perhaps
he's even a shade more dangerous because his
disguise is better, and he fools you more
easily. Start treating him as
Chariie-nice-guy, who's completely harmless,
and you may be courting some trouble. Be on
guard with all Scorpios. I don't mean
they're wicked. They're just not soft or
naive. Some Scorpios, realizing that their
eyes expose their inner intensity, wear
sunglasses frequently, even at night.
Remark to a Scorpio that he has a great
talent which will someday be recognized, and
he smoothly, casually replies, "Yes. I
know." Ask him if he'll do you a favor, and
(he answer will be equally simple. "Yes, of
course I will," or "No, I can't do that."
If you're sensitive, don't ask his
opinion or advice. You'll get the naked,
brutal truth. You asked him, hell tell you.
Scorpio will not pay a false compliment to
gain a point or win an ally. It's beneath
him to flatter. When he says something nice
to you, treasure it. You can be sure it's
sincere and unvarnished. If he says you have
a good voice, stop singing in the shower and
grab a microphone. If he says you have a
great voice, you can safely audition for the
Met. He may even effortlessly move a few
mountains out of your way to help you along.
Don't believe everything you hear about
Scorpio selfishness. Instead, listen to some
of the grateful people who have been on the
receiving end of his wise counsel and
generosity. Scorpio naturally attracts
either fiercely loyal and dedicated
admirers, or envious and spiteful enemies.
But even the latter give him grudging
respect, and you'll notice they're careful
not to challenge him openly. The examples of
the few who did are vivid and painful
reminders that caution is required in an
attack against Scorpio and his planet,
Pluto. Remember that Pluto rules nuclear
power.
Yet, there's a haunting sweetness about
these people, and often a gentle sympathy
with the sick or despairing. Scorpio's
touch can be cool and tender, as well as
hot. His Sun position gives him several
paths to follow. He can imitate the
nocturnal scorpion, who will sting others
and even gong himself to death for the pure
pleasure of stinging- or he can imitate the
glorious, soaring path of his symbolic
eagle, who rises above earthly limitations,
and uses his strength wisely and justly.
Great generals like MacArthur, presidents
like Theodore Roosevelt and scientists like
Madame Curie and Jonas Salk are eagles. More
United I States presidents have been born
under this sign than any other.
As for the nocturnal scorpions, you may
have been stung by a few yourself. Ancient
astrology refers to them as serpents. It's
not hard to guess which category the ones
you meet belong to. A few Pluto people fall
somewhere between the eagle and the stinging
scorpion, victims of their own black magic.
These are the gray lizards. With them,
supreme self sacrifice becomes neurotic
concern about the self, and psychic
abilities become fearful apprehensions of
the lurking evils which may strike at any
moment. Forceful courage twists itself
around, and instead of seeking the ruthless
revenge of the stinger scorpions-or rising
above such bitterness like the eagles-they
bitterly withdraw in tangled hatreds at each
minor injury, hoping fate will punish their
enemies, almost unconsciously willing
destruction without direct action.
The gray lizards fail to draw on the
power of Pluto in their natures-power that
could lift them high above all the
unfortunate circumstances that surround
them. In the very teeth of tragedy, this
awesome inner strength could give them a new
life in the sunlight. But they seek the dark
shadows and lie dormant, a pathetic waste of
the brilliant potential of their birthright.
Still, Scorpio can never slide deep enough
into the slime of bitter depression to
completely lose the power of Pluto. It's
never too late for the gray lizard to
transform himself into an eagle. That kind
. of deep magic belongs exclusively to
every person born I ii ^der the Sun sign of
Scorpio. All they need do is to call on it.
Typical eagles have no fear. In battle
they'll lead their men into the very face
of death without a tremor. Even the average
Pluto man or woman bravely faces anything
from physical pain and poverty to ridicule
and failure with a proud contempt and
complete confidence in an inner ability to
overcome any blow.
Scorpio is intensely loyal to friends.
"Greater love hath no man than this, that a
man lay down his life for his friends." Some
of them do this literally, for friends,
relatives or loved ones-in battle or in a
civilian crisis. The Scorpio soldier leaps
instantly, instinctively, to brave the
bullets and drag his buddy to safety. The
Scorpio fireman gives his life to rescue the
child in the burning building. Sometimes it
seems Pluto people unconsciously seek
violence deliberately, as a challenge to
their strength.
Scorpio never forgets a gift or a
kindness, and it's richly rewarded.
Conversely, he also remembers an injury or
an injustice, but there are different ways
of reacting. The eagle will crush the enemy
so the enemy leams never to hurt him again,
win the fight, and leave the defeated to go
his own way. The deadly nocturnal scorpion
will first sting, then plan destruction,
then sting again. He's not content with
merely evening the score. He must totally
destroy the enemy, or at least top him. The
typical scorpion stinger will lie awake
nights figuring how to get even. If a
neighbor deliberately scrapes his fender,
he'll scrape two fenders on the neighbor's
car the next day, and maybe drive over his
carefully pruned hedges for good measure.
These scorpions are seldom content with
forcing the shoe on the other foot to teach
enemies how it feels. They glue the sandal
on with cement. However, with the gray
lizards, Pluto revenge takes the form of
bitterness held inside for years, which
inevitably causes deep melancholy or actual,
lingering physical illness. Seething Scorpio
resentment, turned inward and never
expressed, poisons with deadly certainty.
Turned outward, it can create guilt,
because the stinger scorpion is ashamed to
harm the defense-less, when all is said and
done. Therefore, it should be turned neither
way-inward nor outward. It should be
conquered by looking up and forgetting, like
the eagle- never by looking back in anger
and retaliation.
The Scorpio health picture is typical of
his nature. He can destroy his body with
excesses, melancholy or hard work. But he
can also built it back at will from a
critical illness. Pluto's power is that
strong. Scorpios are seldom sick, but when
they are, it's usually serious. A long rest
and a change of attitude, with peaceful
acceptance replacing burning resentment, are
the best cures. They can't let well enough
alone, and of course, they know more than
the doctor and all the nurses. The chief
areas of attack for germs and accidents are
the reproductive organs, the nose, the
throat, the heart, spine, back, circulatory
system, legs and ankles. Varicose veins and
accidents in sports are common. They should
avoid fire, explosives, noxious fumes and
radiation. Yet, you'll find lots of them
seek occupations that flirt with danger
along these very lines. Sometimes they have
chronic nose bleeds, or surgery is
performed on the nose for some reason.
Scorpio is deeply interested in religion,
intensely curious about all phases of life
and death, passionately concerned with sex
and violently drawn by a desire to reform.
Yet he's also heroic, dedicated to ties of
family and love, and gently protective of
children and weaker souls. He can be a saint
or a sinner. He can experiment with the
darkest mysteries this side of Hades, or he
can scathingly revile sin and decadence.
Whether he emotes from a pulpit, at a
business meeting, or from a stage, his
hypnotic appeal pierces through his
audience, literally transfixing or
transfiguring them. It's really rather
frightening. Even if the Scorpio has
temporarily allowed bitterness, drink or
melancholy to drag him into the Bowery, you
can bet your old copy of Dante's Inferno
that the other bums will clear a path when
they see him coming.
He's fiercely possessive of what he
believes to be his, including success, but
his ambition is never obvious. He quietly
waits for the chance to move ahead all the
while he serves, knowing he is qualified for
the position above him. He takes control
slowly, but very surely. Scorpio can do just
about anything he wants to do. If he
really wants it, it's most definitely no
longer a dream. The dark, magical and
mysterious power of Pluto turns desire into
reality with cool, careful, fixed intent.
Although a morbid desire to know the
worst of sick and depraved humanity can
create a gray lizard who dabbles in drugs
and cruelty, he can reverse the path to a
life of medicine, where drastic treatments
with the same symbols have a deep
fascination for him. Although many of the
rumored sadistic surgeons are Scorpios, it's
equally true that many of the finest medical
men in the entire world are inspired by
Pluto to heal both the mind and the body,
diagnosing and treating with strange,
inscrutable knowledge.
Scorpio was born knowing the secrets of
life and death, and with the ability to
conquer both if he chooses. But astrology
constantly advises him that "he must know
that he knows." The ancient mysteries
fascinate his brilliant mind. Out of his
powerful empathy with human nature grows the
outstanding detective, the composer of great
musical works, literature of depth and
permanence, or the actor who projects with
unusual dramatic intensity. Sometimes he
lives alone, near the sea, as strong and as
silent as the tides. Sometimes he faces the
public, wearing a mask of calm reserve and
control, to hide his intense desire to win.
He can be a politician or a television star,
an undertaker or a bartender, but he'll
manage to top all his competitors. And hell
do it so effortlessly it will seem like an
act of fate rather than his own powerful
will.
One of the strangest patterns in
astrology is the death of a relative in the
family within either a year before or the
year after the birth of a Scorpio. And when
a Scorpio dies, there will be a birth in the
family within the year before or the year
after. It happens at least ninety-five
percent of the time. Pluto's symbol is the
triumphant phoenix rising from its own
smoldering ashes, and Scorpio personifies
the resurrection from the grave. Both the
gray lizards and the stinging scorpions can
become proud eagles without ever revealing
the secret of their sorcery. No use to
ask-Scorpio will never tell. But he knows
the eternal truth of the circle contained in
the symbolic zero.
November's thistle is dangerous, yet it
grows entwined with the heavy, languid
beauty of the Scorpio honeysuckle. Have you
ever inhaled that sweet, overwhelming
fragrance on a still midsummer's night? Then
you will know why there are those who brave
the thistles to seek the gentleness of
Scorpio-exquisite gentleness. The explosive
passion of Pluto has the rich, dark red
wine color of the bloodstone. But Scorpio
steel is tempered in a furnace of unbearable
heat until it emerges cool, satiny
smooth-and strong enough to control the nine
spiritual fires of Scorpio's wisdom.
Famous Scorpio Personalities
Marie Antoinette Jim Bishop Richard
Burton Richard E. Byrd Johnny Carson Prince
Charles Chiang Kai-shek Madame Curie Charles
de Gaulle Marie Dressier George Eliot George
Galiup Indira Gandhi Billy Graham Hetty
Green
Katharine Hepbum Grace Kelly Robert
Kennedy Vivien Leigh Martin Luther Douglas
MacArthur Margaret Mead Marianne Moore
Jawaharlal Nehru Mike Nichols Pablo Picasso
Theodore Roosevelt Jonas Salk Eric Sevareid
Billy Sunday
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And her eyes immediately met those
of a large, blue caterpillar
that was sitting on the top with its
arms folded, quietly
smoking a long hookah . . .
The caterpillar and Alice
looked at each other in silence,
If you're in love with a Scorpio male and
the word passion frightens you, put on your
track shoes and run as if King Kong were
pursuing you. He is.
I'm not speaking of romantic passion
alone, though that may be at the head of the
list. I also refer to passionate intensity
about politics, work, friendship, religion,
food, relatives, children, clothing, life,
death and any other categories you can think
up. A Scorpio man is not exactly what your
psyche needs if you're repelled by emotional
excess. Don't look back. Just run.
You'll think I've taken leave of my
senses if you've just met that particular
Pluto person. He's so calm and steady. How
could anyone with such obvious self-control
be passionate, let alone dangerously so? How
indeed. Because he's only bluffing with the
surface cool. Inside, his passions are as
red hot as that stove you burned your hand
on when you were three or four years old and
getting into things out of your reach. This
man may also be out of reach. He's sizzling
underneath his deceptively controlled
manner. Don't touch. You know perfectly well
how long it takes for bums to heal.
Remember? Your hand was stinging for weeks
after that episode with the stove when you
were in your Buster Browns. After this
experience, your heart will burn for months,
maybe years, and first aid kits will do
little good. Grandma's favorite saying, "An
ounce of prevention is worth a pound of
cure," applies to both stove burns and
Scorpio singes, so play it safe. Make sure
you know where you're going and with whom.
If your Sun sign gives you an asbestos,
fireproof nature, go ahead and play with
explosives. You may be able to keep the
flames under control and have yourself a
powerful fire to warm your heart for a
lifetime. Perhaps you're passionate about
things yourself. Fine. Then it's simply a
matter of degree of heat. If your passion
has an automatic thermostat, so it can be
turned down to cool when his reads hot,
you're safe. Let's pretend you are. The
girls who are in danger should be in the
next state by now, if they ran fast enough.
They'll thank me someday after they've
married a nice, safe Libran or Cancerian.
As for you women who have analyzed
yourselves as safe in a Pluto relationship,
let's see if we can find what's hidden
behind those hypnotic, piercing Scorpio
eyes. It's pretty certain he hasn't made a
neutral impression on you. He's either got
you thinking he's boyish and sweet, or that
he's wicked and passionate. (There goes that
word again.) The trouble is, he's neither.
Or maybe I should say he's both. Well, this
isn't getting us anywhere. Let's start all
over again.
In a word, this man is invincible. Just
behind his frosty reserve is a huge pot of
boiling steam that bubbles and seethes
continually. If you're lucky, he'll keep the
lid on. tight for a lifetime, but a deep
injury can blow it right off with a
brilliant explosion. It's kind of
fascinating to watch. if you're not in its
direct line of destruction. Step aside, if
you feel it coming. And don't do anything to
cause it yourself.
Hell bewilder you with his twin Scorpio
traits of passion and reason. He's master of
both: intellect and emotions rule him
equally. Scorpio is more than intelligent.
If he's a highly evolved specimen, he's also
deeply philosophical, concerned with
mysteries of existence, and he'll come close
to knowing the answers.
There are Scorpios who can live a spartan
existence in a bare room, denying themselves
every comfort for some obscure, aesthetic
reason, but the true nature of the sign is
sensual. Normally, Scorpio will surround
himself with luxury. He'll lean toward
excesses in food, drugs, drink, and yes-in
love. Most assuredly in love. He's geared
for it, with confidence. Romance will never
frighten him, puzzle him, or catch him
unaware. It's been on his mind ever since he
rode his first bicycle. Maybe even his first
tricycle. Of course, you could conceivably
know a Scorpio who is so absolutely
innocent-looking, with such disarming,
youthful charm and lack of obvious seductive
mannerisms, he's convinced you that passion
is over-rated in Pluto males. He may even
have freckles, and a whole drawer full of
Boy Scout merit badges. But ask his wife.
Try something like, "Say, Bertha-or
Rosalie-or Sheila-or whatever-is your
husband, well, is he passionate?" She might
summon enough dignity to tell you it's none
of your business, but your answer will most
likely be hysterical laughter. Between her
peals of mirth, she'll be remembering many
days of his intense, passionate declarations
about air pollution, housebreaking the dog,
narcotics, long hair, birth control, and
many nights of ... well, and many nights.
This will be true even if her husband looks
like Huckleberry Finn, and doesn't even
remotely resemble King Kong.
These men have an explosive temper that
can strike a life-time wound. When the
Scorpio lashes his deadly tail, the sting
bites hard. He not only enjoys winning, he
has to win. Something inside him dies when
he loses, even in small ways; yet oddly
enough, a Pluto man normally practices good
sportsmanship. Like all his other emotions,
disappointment never shows on those set
features, and his reactions are rigidly
controlled, including his romantic
intentions. If there's a good reason to
avoid the relationship, hell bum inside
while he's projecting a glacial calm
outwardly. He's also capable of torturing a
girl cruelly before he finally decides to
grab her by the hair and drag her off to his
jungle of honeysuckle vines. Naturally,
there are some November fellows who will
gently propose on bended knee. They'll
behave very properly, with or without a
chaperone, but don't be deceived. It's
merely the Scorpio desire to keep dignity at
all cost. Your reputation must be spotless.
He won't stand for ridicule or cheapness,
for all his erotic nature.
Pluto people can have either a Sunday
School teacher horror of sin, an attitude
which produces intensely dedicated
evangelistic religious leaders, like Billy
Graham, or they can be driven by curiosity
to penetrate every dark corner of the human
mystery. Sometimes, both attitudes are
combined, resulting in the hypocrisy or
self-delusion of an Elmer Gantry or a
Reverend Davidson in Rain.
Every Scorpio is a law unto himself, and
completely unconcerned with what others
think of him. He would like to be respected
as a good, solid citizen, but if it
interferes with any of his intense ideas or
goals, then he couldn't care less, and those
who gossip can just go to the place Pluto
rules. None of his important decisions are
hampered by the opinions of his friends,
relatives, neighbors or enemies. I'm sorry
to say, not even by you. Don't run away yet.
Such beautiful self-containment and sureness
of purpose can create a mighty attractive,
free spirit who's not always fussing about
what people think. Are honesty and courage
and integrity such bad bargains? They may
have lost a little of their sparkle in
today's marketplace, but rub off the dust
they've collected, and you can still get
them appraised as genuine.
It's quite an experience to see the
Scorpio man operate under adversity's black
clouds. While others are mumbling and
crumbling and grumbling, he is at his
forceful, courageous best. He seldom
wallows in envy or self-pity, and he doesn't
happen to think that life owes him a single
farthing. You can just imagine how much time
that saves. Instead of pouting in hurt anger
when real troubles hit, he meets them head
on. Conquer them? But of course.
That's what he was born to do.
One thing is a little frightening, and
may require courage on your part. Scorpio
loves mystery and there's not a single one
that crosses his path he won't solve in
detail. Since the eternal feminine mystery
is any girl's most potent defense and
offense, being stripped naked of your
mystery can leave you feeling a little
exposed. You'll scarcely have a secret left
when he starts probing with those burning
eyes and piercing questions.
He has high standards, and he won't
choose his friends loosely. They'll have to
measure up. This is a marvelous, rare kind
of man who can share a jug of spirits and
joke with rough humor among other men like a
bawdy Elizabethan; then tap that deep,
inscrutable nature and turn into as gentle
and tender a lover as Robert Browning. If
there's anything more to ask for in a male
animal, I don't know what it might be.
Submissiveness and forgiveness? Detachment
and caution? That's not fair. You knew he
was short on those qualities back in the
beginning.
He can be cruel sometimes, for his own,
unfathomable reasons, and he may even
exhibit a sadistic sense of wit by
describing you as fat, dumpy, shrewish and
square in front of friends. It's his private
joke. Grin, if it kills you. You've been
warned that Scorpio is compelled to conceal
his motives, and this tendency isn't watered
down in love. It may even be intensified.
He's not about to display his true emotions
in front of the world like a vulnerable,
smitten schoolboy. Later, when you're alone,
he'll tell you what he really thinks.
Marriage gives you a certain security,
but if he pulls some of his Pluto tricks
before the knot is tied, it may hurt, and
you'll fail to get the humor. Still, don't
even think about telling him that his harsh,
self-sufficient who-needs-you? game makes
you feel like jumping off a bridge. The
Scorpio man will just tell you to go ahead
and jump. It may take a while to adjust to
his personality, but it will eventually
toughen you up. If you're too soft, you'll
bruise easily with a Scorpio. Never ask him
what he thinks of a new dress or hair-do,
unless you're prepared to be stung by the
brutal truth. At least you'll know his
positive statements are honest, and not
pasted together with the sticky glue of
bored, insincere flattery. It's better to
brave a good, healthy "You look awful," now
and then, and be rewarded by an occasional
"You're really beautiful, you know," than to
swallow a constant diet of vague remarks
like: "Yes, dear, it's lovely, sugar.
Mmmmm-just fine, pigeon," from other men.
Don't you think so? I do. But then, you're
the one who has to live with it.
When it comes to jealousy, you'd better
tread very, very carefully. He could bum and
erupt like Mount Vesuvius in its heyday if
you should accidentally wink near a man when
a cinder gets in your eye, and if you ever
give him a real reason to be suspicious,
you're a very brave woman. But you'd better
pack away your own jealous streak in the
trunk, and then lock it. It will make no
impression at all to drench him in angry
tears or reproachful recriminations. No
matter how he behaves, just say to yourself,
"He loves me, and he will never discard real
love for physical promiscuity. He's loyal to
his deep ties, and he's only practicing his
hypnotic art with those girls." Say it once
before each meal, in the morning and at
bedtime. Especially at bedtime. Women will
find him irresistibly attractive, but keep
remembering that if anyone is strong enough
to resist such continual flattery and
temptation, it's a Scorpio. Doesn't that
make you feel better? It should. It's true.
He'll probably be a stern father. The
children won't get away with an ounce of
lazy or frivolous behavior. Hell teach them
to respect property, but he'll also teach
them to respect themselves. Youngsters will
seldom get the chance to form any false
values around a Scorpio papa. Although he'll
love them with as much sincere passion as he
puts into everything else he cares about, he
won't Stand for any nonsense. He'll protect
them when they need it, but they'll soon get
the message that he expects them to stand
alone. If they borrow money from him, he's
liable to charge them interest on it, but
it's for their own good. They may not
realize that until he's gone some-day, but
the lesson will eventually come home to
them. Lots of children of Scorpio fathers
resent his high-handed authority and tight
discipline throughout childhood, and
especially during the rebellious years, but
as adults, they realize how lucky they were
to have his firm guidance. From no other
father can children learn so much truth
about the way life really is. Often his
offspring will find him gentle and funny;
still there won't be any question about who
is boss. He'll joke and laugh with them, and
give them a sense of freedom, but the chalk
line will be drawn, and they'll know not to
cross it. Even as they resent his attitude
of command, the children will secretly
admire his strength and try to imitate it,
but occasionally it works the other way. A
gentle child may feel bullied and cowed by
Scorpio power, and retreat into neurotic
introversion, fearing to risk his
displeasure. Then you'll have to remind him
that affection and tenderness sometimes get
more results than his normal, unbending,
autocratic manner. Just be sure you remind
him tactfully and respectfully. A Scorpio
man will never allow a woman to dictate to
him. Never in a million years. He is the man
and you are the woman, and if you have any
doubts about it, you will be set straight so
surely that you'll never need but one
lesson. Yet, a Scorpio husband with a wife
who truly understands him, will be tender,
sympathetic, considerate, and repay her
loyalty with the kind of love most women
only read about and wish for.
It won't help much to try to resist this
man, once the flame has been stirred and
he's decided he wants you. Hell hypnotize
you right out of all your good intentions.
The magnetism of Scorpio men is almost
tangible. You feel you can reach out and
touch it. When you do, you may get a
surprise. It will bum you only if you're
over-sensitive and scorchable. If you're
patient and strong, it will be like touching
cool marble. Girls are out of their league
with him. It takes a brave woman to fly with
the eagle and not crash. He can soar higher
than his symbolic bright star Antares in the
constellation of Scorpio, then dip down
suddenly to earthy expression. Hang on
tightly, but keep your eyes open wide, and
you'll see horizons with him the timid will
never see. Look over there, just beyond the
tall fir trees-did you ever in your whole
life experience such a sunrise? Sunset will
be just as grand.
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"Consider anything only don't cry
. . ."
The female Scorpio has a deep, mysterious
beauty. She's magnetic, proud and totally
confident. But she has one secret regret.
She was not born a man.
I can almost feel the heat from here when
Pluto women hear about that revelation.
There's not a Scorpio female alive who
doesn't think she's all woman, and you may
wonder what I'm talking about yourself, if
you're in love with one. This girl certainly
has enough glamour, and she's enormously
seductive. But I didn't say she looked like
a boy, nor did I intend to imply she doesn't
do a bang-up job of being a female. It's
just that, unconsciously, she would prefer
to be a man. Less restriction-more
opportunity. It's the one secret she even
hides from herself, and seeing it exposed
won't sit well with her.
Once the Scorpio girl has figured out the
difference between blue booties and pink
booties, she'll resign herself to wearing
the pink ones, because she's fabulous at
making the best out of a situation. But
pink is not her natural color. The true
shade of her nature is dark maroon, or deep
wine-red, not a female color at all.
However, to give her proper tribute, she's
able to make you think it is. I know one
who's great at pretending to be a fragile,
fluffy kitten. She purrs so contentedly most
men guess she's an ultra-feminine Piscean.
They topple into her trap and wake up later,
sadder but wiser. She is no kitten.
Scorpio women have a scornful contempt
for members of their sex who flop in the
roles of sweetheart, wife and mother, once
they're stuck with the parts. A Pluto girl
will control her desire to dominate, while
she gives a glorious performance of
womanhood, and she'll do it with more finess
than the masculine Aries, Leo or Sagittarius
girl. At least she'll do it during
courtship. There may be a few cases when the
unsuspecting male gets a rude surprise
after he shakes the rice out of his shoes
and the illusions out of his eyes. Unlike
the Mars female, for example, a Scorpio will
subdue her drive and magnetize a man with
the heavy perfume of her exotic glance as
she allows him to use his lighter to ignite
her cigarette. That's far sexier than
aggressively striking a match herself and
blowing the smoke in his face, and she knows
it. She knows lots more. Another girl might
rush headlong into your arms and shout her
love from the rooftops. The Scorpio girl
walks toward you slowly, seductively, and
silently delivers her private message. It's
puzzling, but these women can look seductive
in jeans, jodhpurs or basketball shoes.
Maybe it's her husky voice that creates the
image. I know one who wore a baseball cap
(honest) the entire time her future husband
was courting her, and she spent a lot of
time talking about batting averages. But she
was as seductive as Mata Hari just the same,
and she got her man. (He was hypnotized, as
usual.)
You can give her a tumble, but she won't
fall all over herself reacting to your
overtures. Don't expect her to bat long,
sweeping eyelashes at you, and adore you
with blind devotion. Lots of female Scorpios
are tomboys with stubby eyelashes. Besides,
with those beautiful, mysterious eyes that
can read your mind so clearly, she doesn't
need any extra trimming. Whisper something
romantic that would melt another girl out of
her senses, and the Scorpio girl will simply
give you an intense, penetrating look that
will see right straight through to your real
intentions. She's a human X-ray machine, so
don't flirt. Unless you mean business,
you're wasting her time and insulting her. I
wouldn't advise you to insult a Scorpio.
It's just not healthy. If you don't know
what I mean, ask someone who has. He may
have some stories to tell that will curl
your hair.
I'm well aware that this dangerous femme
fatale can hide her power of retaliation
with a tremulous smile, gentle mannerisms,
and the most breathless voice this side of
an angel. But astrologers are expected to be
up on these things. It's more important for
you to be well aware. After all, you're the
one who's seeking to tame her-or protect
yourself against her-whichever. Probably
both.
You can be sure that heaven certainly has
no fury like that of a Scorpio woman who's
lost her normal steady control over those
inward, seething, Pluto emotions. She can be
overbearing and domineering, sarcastic and
frigid- then turn as hot as an oven at 500
degrees Fahrenheit. She can hate with bitter
venom and love with fierce abandon. She can
shriek like a furious banshee or whisper
like an affectionate turtle dove. One thing
you can be sure of- she's never wishy-washy.
The Scorpio woman has a disconcerting
gift that can make icy shivers run up your
spine. It's a peculiar form of black magic,
and she weaves it so expertly it can seem
like real witchcraft. You have very little
chance to escape, once her eyes meet yours.
Because of her mystical sixth sense, she can
often recognize a future mate at first
glance, and somehow, she'll transfer this
perception instantly. You'll have one of two
reactions. You'll be hopelessly caught in
her spell, and down you'll go, in a dizzy
spin toward surrender, or you'll be scared
right out of your socks, and feel like
running for help. What's your rush? Stay
around awhile. You might find out what life
is all about. She knows. And she'll teach
you. Anyway, you should be flattered that
she considers you worth that strange gaze. A
Scorpio woman can't excuse weakness in a
man. She looks for ambition and courage. She
wants a mate who can dominate her and make
her proud, without disturbing her secret
individuality. He's expected to be strong,
masculine and better-looking than average. A
high degree of intelligence is required to
match her own excellent mind, plus more than
a passing acquaintance with abstract,
philosophical wisdom. So put your socks back
on and practice a superior smirk. Everybody
you know will think you're pretty super to
have her staring at you. The men and women
both. It could open new vistas, when you
think about it. Your personal stock should
zoom several points higher than it was
before she noticed you.
Having once achieved closeness with a
female Scorpio, you can be positive you're a
unique and unusual man. You can also be sure
that her love for you is unmatched by any
you'll ever experience-and you can take that
in several ways. You'll be the most
important interest in her life. If she's a
typical Pluto girl, she'll boost you
loyally, and try to please you with
passionate intensity. If you're too hard to
please, she'll show her frustration with
passionate attempts to conquer your
disinterest.
The word "passionate" probably caught
your eye. Most men have heard exciting
rumors about the passion of November
females. It's true. She's brimming over
inside with passion, though it's kept under
rigid control by a poised, frosty attitude
toward strangers, and a surface smoothness
suggestive of black velvet. But the male sex
is too inclined to relate passion strictly
to romantic action; and that's selling her
short, because Pluto's definition of the
word is far more encompassing. It's involved
with her feelings about everything she
touches. She's never just slightly
interested. It's impossible for her to be
detached or casual. She seldom likes or
dislikes a play, a book, religion,
furniture or people. She either bitterly
resents or she intensely worships. If one of
these two passions can't be aroused, then
she totally ignores, with ice around the
edges. Yet, through it all, she'll remain
essentially untouched by emotional storms,
judging at least from her placid exterior,
which always drapes itself around her after
each minor or major nuclear explosion. It
may be difficult to convince your
mother-in-law that her daughter really broke
all those dishes and tore all those
draperies to shreds after the fury has
subsided and her black velvet poise has
returned. People may look at you as if
you're a character assassinator. What do you
mean? Shame on you, accusing that cool,
controlled, lovely girl of such a temper.
You have my sympathy, if that's any help.
She has such fabulous virtues, you might
know her vices wouldn't be skimpy, either.
So think about her good points. All right,
then, think about her good points after that
lump on your head has healed.
Because she's drawn to investigation of
the shadows, she may at first seem to be
tempting, forbidden fruit, and the deep,
strange expression in her eyes intensifies
the impression. It's true that the Scorpio
girl sometimes wanders into dangerous waters
in her efforts to penetrate life, and since
there's not the slightest trace of fear in
her (unless she has an affliction to her
Moon, and is full of nameless terrors), her
search may indeed take her into some weird
byways. But the typical Scorpio will emerge
from any discovery still strong and pure. If
she allows the journey to soil her inner
spirit, Pluto will punish her with anguished
remorse and guilt; yet she can still call on
her great strength of character to rise
again, like the phoenix, from the ashes of
her experiments. In Kahlil Gibran's
writings, the Prophet replies, in answer to
a question about Evil, "Of the Good in you I
can speak, but not of the Evil. For what is
Evil but Good-tortured by its own hunger and
thirst? When Good is hungry, it seeks food,
even in dark caves, and when it thirsts, it
drinks even of dead waters." A perfect
description of Scorpio.
She may have been a fascinated spectator
to a million human foibles, and she may have
tasted a variety of experiences to savor
the knowledge. But she can mysteriously
emerge from all her explorations above
suspicion, and still superior to almost
every other woman you know. She could be the
keeper of quite a few secrets. It's
surprising how many dark deeds are confessed
to Scorpios, though their own inner lives
are marked: "Private-Keep Out." She likes to
hear secrets, but she'll seldom tell
anything anyone has confided in her, not
even to you (unless there's an afflicted
Mercury in her natal chart). You can also
expect her to have a stack of secrets that
relate to her personally, and don't try to
pry them out of her. There's a private part
to this woman you'll never touch, a part of
her mind and soul that belongs strictly to
her, and there's absolutely no trespassing
there. She's not untruthful, in fact she's
more oftien too brutally honest, yet there
will always be those special thoughts and
feelings she won't confide to you or anyone
else.
A Scorpio woman will be incredibly loyal
to those she finds strong and deserving, but
the weak ones will never be honored by her
glance. Her dignity in human relationships
can make her seem aloof and snobbish. In a
way, she definitely is, because she
practices a personal caste system, and it's
more clearly marked than that of her Leo and
Capricorn sisters. All Scorpios are highly
selective in friendships. They'll keep the
worthy companions through an entire
lifetime, and freeze the shallow, the common
or the unworthy. There's an immense store of
perseverance and determination buried in the
nature of a Scorpio woman, and any time she
chooses, she can call on these to help her
master the excesses which may tempt her,
from drink and drugs to self-destructive,
ruthless revenge and dangerous depression.
Sooner or later, she'll probably investigate
some form of the occult, and ancient
mysteries and unseen worlds will eventually
have her respect, though Scorpios can range
all the way from religious fervor to total
atheism during a lifetime.
A Scorpio woman need not be a legal wife
to give wifely love and devotion. If
circumstances beyond your control make
marriage impossible, she'll love you from
hell to breakfast, and not give a hang what
the neighbors think. In most such unusual
situations, the relationship is real and
honest above and beyond the shallow, selfish
love of many a legitimate marriage. The
hypocrisies of society will never keep this
courageous woman from seeking the sun. She
answers to no law but her own, and in her
Pluto heart, she has more total
understanding of the vow "till death do us
part" than half the brides who blissfully
murmur the phrase.
.Despite her own strong individualism,
the typical Scorpio girl will let her man be
the boss. Instead of overshadowing him with
her force and drive, she'll apply her
talents to help him attain his goals. Your
future will be important to her, and she's
not likely to insist on retaining her own
career after marriage (unless you've
disappointed her deeply or a second job is
needed in a temporary domestic crisis). She
may fight you wildly in private, but she'll
defend you fiercely in public. She won't
stand for anyone maligning you or taking
advantage of you. Those who try will feel
the lash of her righteous anger. Your
happiness will always come first. Unless
there are adverse aspects to her Sun sign or
ascendant in her natal chart, she'll
patiently help you persevere until you get
what you want, and while you're getting it,
she won't whine or complain or become
restless, though she might turn a little
bitter if you lose your courage on the way.
She'll expect you to aim as high as your
abilities will reach. Anything less may
bring on some pretty sarcastic taunts and
reproaches, especially if she has an
afflicted Mercury.
Scorpio women love their homes, which
usually shine with cleanliness, taste and
comfort. Meals are served on time, and
things are generally under control. If the
opposite is true, something is making her
mighty unhappy, because her natural
inclination is to beauty and system. To the
typical Scorpio woman spring cleaning is
like vacation. They love to dig into comers
to see what they can find. Just be careful
she doesn't find any cryptic notes that
smell of perfume in your old jacket pockets
when she's clearing out the closets. Scorpio
is unreasonably suspicious, even when
there's no basis for suspicion, so you can
imagine what happens when she finds a real
clue to possible infidelity. Picture the
shape of a mushroom cloud and you'll get a
general idea of what may happen,
figuratively speaking. It's no good being
suspicious of her, no matter how many
opportunities arise; and there will be a
goodly number of them, because she never
exposes her deepest feelings. Naturally,
this can arouse a few questions on your
part. Just swallow them, along with the lump
in your throat. Like that locked chest or
drawer she's had since childhood, certain
things about her are off limits. It will get
you nowhere to probe. I realize fully that
it isn't fair. So does she. But that doesn't
change things a bit. That's the way it is.
Take her or leave her. You'll probably take
her. It's almost impossible to leave her. If
nothing else, she'll haunt you the rest of
your life. Adjusting to the idiosyncrasies
of her nature is easier than suffering the
nightmares that will surely result if you
walk away. No one walks away from a Scorpio.
Not really. Didn't you know that? Those who
have tried can educate you. Anyway, you
have a very special woman.
As much as she needs the security of home
roots, shell move if it's necessary to your
career, and without any visible flinching at
the uprooting. She makes an excellent wife
for an army or navy man and a real jewel for
a politician. There's no one she can't see
through, no deception that escapes her. A
Scorpio woman can tell you exactly who can
be trusted and which ones you have to watch.
The Pisces wife has the same ability, but
she may be too soft to criticize, too ready
to make excuses for the failings of others.
Not so the Scorpio female. In fact, she may
frequently have to check her sharp tongue
and tone down her brutal analysis.
In the budget department, Scorpio women
are completely unpredictable. She can
scrimp and save and pinch a penny until it
bends double, then have a sudden spell of
being magnificently extravagant. One thing
is sure. She'll enjoy money, whether she
saves it in an old shoe or spends it on
luxury. But this woman always leans heavily
toward prestige, and she won't let cash
compromise that. She'll be satisfied if you
choose a smaller income, as long as it
insures that you are your own boss, with the
potential to rise to become somebody of
influence, Scorpio females like power, and
they will sacrifice much for it. Your power
will do, because Pluto allows her to be
adept at living vicariously through others
when it suits her. Remember that although
she'll sacrifice and put up with very little
for a planned goal, she's too proud to live
amid shabby surroundings forever, and
she'll become mighty sour and discontented
if she's forced to do so for an unreasonable
length of time. She'll either try to force a
change in the family fortunes after a
certain period, or she'll gradually retreat
into the dismal world of the gray lizard,
outwardly accepting and almost seeming to
enjoy poverty, but inwardly intensely
bitter.
She'll be possessive but she won't want
to be possessed. One of the worst traits of
both male and female Scorpios is a refusal
to see any viewpoint but their own when the
emotions are involved. It takes weeks of
introspection to bring them around to a
semblance of humility. Her natural interest
in the opposite sex, even if it remains
platonic, may give you as much reason to be
jealous of her as she is of you. She'll
probably fascinate every male in sight on
occasion, and you may have to sit by while
they're mesmerized. It seldom leads to
anything serious, but it can cause some
uncomfortable moments. It can also lead to
some explosive disagreements. In the heat of
battle, it pays to remember that her
compulsion to even the score usually makes
her the winner in any kind of skirmish. She
gets the last word. If you tell her a lie,
she may tell two. If you stubbornly refuse
to kiss her good-bye in the morning after a
tiff, she may refuse to kiss you goodnight
for a month. Just let your mother (or
anybody's mother) criticize her cooking,
and the Scorpio woman may forget to invite
her to dinner for several Sundays in a row.
An accidental injury, however, she'll
forgive, if she knows it's unintentional.
The Scorpio sense of justice is as strong as
the sense of revenge. Most people forget
this. She'll remember every kindness and
give you back double for that, too. It works
both ways.
With the children, her expression of love
may lack a certain tenderness and open
demonstration, but the youngsters will
probably sense her deep devotion and feel
emotionally secure anyway. A Scorpio mother
won't let the talents of her children go
unnoticed or gather dust. She'll spend many
an hour encouraging them toward higher
goals, and be willing to provide any support
they need. Her offspring will find her
strong and helpful when youthful problems
arise, because her knowledge of human nature
makes her a wise counselor. She'll teach
them to meet difficulties with her own
courage. But she can be bund to their
faults, an attitude which can naturally
cause a lot of trouble if it isn't
recognized and checked in time. Anyone she
imagines is a threat to the happiness of her
children, in any way, however small, will be
crushed, and I'm afraid that includes her
husband. She won't appreciate it if he's
stricter with them than she thinks he ought
to be.
A Scorpio woman will sometimes nearly
drown you in her passion for living, yet in
a real storm, her cool, calm reason and
steely strength will be a life raft. Though
she works her magic in strange and secret
ways, her haunting eyes will always gaze at
you with basic honesty, even while she
remains just beyond the reach of human
understanding. She's a little dangerous,
perhaps, but undeniably exciting. Let other
husbands cope with the flighty girls. You've
known the compelling mystery of a lovely
witch who brews a pretty good cup of tea and
never bums your toast. (Well, almost never.)
When the cup is empty, let her read the tea
leaves for you. She can-if she wants to.
You mean you didn't know? I told you
there are things she keeps to herself....
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"What else had you to learn?" "Well,
there was Mystery ... Mystery, ancient and
modem,
with Seaography . . . Drawling,
Stretching
and Fainting in Coils."
The usual reaction of proud parents at
the first glimpse of their newborn Scorpio
infant is pleased surprise. "He looks so
much more 'finished' than the other babies
in the nursery," they murmur. "He's calmer
too-and just look at what a strong body he
has." That's right, even the tiniest
Scorpios normally have extraordinarily
strong bodies. They were designed to match
their extraordinarily strong wills.
Scorpio children enjoy a good fight, and
they intend to win it. Compromise is not one
of their virtues. Even if they pretend to
give in, they're just biding their time
until the contest can be resumed on another
front, where they have the advantage.
As soon as you know the stork is due in
November or (hereabouts, go right out and
buy a large, sturdy playpen. You'll need
one. After baby arrives, you can climb
inside it and read a book or eat your lunch,
safe and secure behind the bars. The
saleswoman may look at you oddly when you
lie down on the blue plastic bunny pad to
measure its fit, but ignore her. If you
can't take the stare of a stranger, how are
you going to face the burning gaze of your
own child without flinching? The Scorpio
infant will fix you with his intense eyes as
soon as he can see people without the fuzzy
haze, and you'll be hypnotized into obeying
his every whim. Picture him sitting
cross-legged on the floor in his diaper and
turban, playing his flute, while you sway
back and forth helplessly, like a snake in a
basket. Good grief! So better start steeling
yourself against his black magic right now.
Give that saleswoman a frosty stare right
back. It's your money you're spending.
If your actions seem a little peculiar,
it's not her business to dictate to you. You
are the customer. Therefore, you are the
boss. With minor changes, this is the exact
attitude you'll need to cope with your young
Scorpio. It's your house. If your rules seem
a little peculiar, it's not baby's business
to dictate to you. You are the mother.
Therefore, you are the boss. As you say it,
stare him down.
You'll have your work cut out for you,
but it's an interesting challenge. The
Scorpio child will need constant and firm
discipline. You'll have to impress the
qualities of consideration for weaker
people, being a good sport when he loses,
respect for authority and forgiveness when
others hurt him. As you train his fine
character, you'll be impressed yourself
with his brilliant mind and magnetic
personality. His rare courage and honesty
are well worth nourishing and protecting
from the infection of a super ego that can
pervert or destroy them.
There are two roads for the Scorpio to
choose-the high and the low. For a while,
you may be convinced that he's chosen the
back alley before he's even learned to walk.
Fluttery, nervous or soft mothers are beaten
before they start. Your little Scorpio
toddler will glare at you fiercely when you
forbid him to touch something. Glare back at
him, kindly but firmly. It may be difficult
to accomplish a kindly glare, but keep
practicing. Smile through your clenched
teeth and say no loudly, with emphatic
conviction. You'll only win a temporary
struggle; it will be resumed again an hour
later, but it's a step up that high road.
Eventually, the Scorpio youngster will begin
to admire you for your strength in resisting
him. Hell learn only from someone he thinks
is stronger than himself. Of course, he
knows the victory is only due to his present
size, and he'll top you someday, but
meanwhile, he'll give you his grudging
respect, as long as you're bigger. By the
time he's tall enough to wrestle his older
brother to the floor or win a game of Indian
deadlock with his father your job will be
done. You'll be a little exhausted, but
proud, and he'll be well on the way to
becoming a splendid eagle, instead of a
stinging, revengeful scorpion. Warning: Be
sure there's a generous spreading of love
and affection on top of your firm
discipline, or he could become a miserable
gray lizard, tortured by fears and phobias,
bitter and withdrawn.
Because of his blunt, often sarcastic
speech and plain-spoken manner, he'll seem
to be forthright and direct, but there will
still be a great need for privacy. He has
his little secrets and you are not to pry.
Give him a large metal box with a key, where
he can keep his personal possessions, or a
special drawer of his own that no one else
in the family can open by strict agreement.
As female Scorpios grow older, they'll want
a diary with a foolproof lock.
These youngsters will conceal their own
thoughts, but trying to hide things from
them is impossible. They'll ferret out every
embarrassing family secret from Aunt
Bertha's false teeth and Uncle Percy's
drinking sprees to Dad's "rug" that hides
his bald spot. They're also whizzes at
finding lost socks, keys, billfolds and
lipsticks-regular miniature sleuths who use
both witchcraft and cold logic to solve any
mystery.
There's a miraculous ability to withstand
pain. Even the stitches required to sew up
an accidental cut will usually be borne
without either tears or anesthetic. Your
Scorpio youngster is wise beyond his years.
There will be times when his instinctive
understanding is a blessing. Daddies who are
discouraged by financial problems often feel
the surprising pressure of a bear hug from a
little tot far too young to understand
economics. He only knows his father is
unhappy, and he'll want to express his
desire to destroy whatever is causing it.
When she's ill or depressed, a mother may
get an unexpected, silent and tender touch
from a tiny Scorpio who has somehow sensed
her sadness.
Scorpio children are filled with
boundless loyalty to friends and loved ones.
They can be pretty hard on anyone else. If a
bad-tempered playmate deliberately breaks
his rocking horse, the Scorpio youngster may
break the offending child's scooter, fire
truck and blackboard-and punch him in the
nose besides, just to make sure he knows
he's stepped on a Scorpio's tail. Naturally,
this must be discouraged, and I wish you
luck. You can tell your November child that
revengeful anger will come home to roost,
that he's only hurting himself by getting
even, but it won't be easy for him to see
the logic. Get him one of those boomerangs
they sell in toy stores, and let him throw
it with all his force. When it's shocked him
by magically returning to clip him on the
ear a few times, he may get the message. It
won't be as popular with him, of course, as
a microscope, a book of magic games or a
chemistry set These are sure-fire hits.
His teachers won't know whether to send
him to the head of the class or get
out the old birch switch. Theyll ; probably
end up doing both. Scorpio boys and girls
have sharp, penetrating minds and an uncanny
perception of theories. They can be steadies
on the honor roll or the biggest hookey
players in the neighborhood. Given the good
fortune of wise instructors, they'll leam to
read quickly and be leaders of school
activities.
The Scorpio child has a good chance of
being class valedictorian if he's guided
away from his fascination for the forbidden.
Keep him active physically and interested
mentally, and channel his passionate
curiosity into science, literature, medicine
or sports. Encourage his childish dreams of
being a space engineer, sailor, fireman,
minister, entertainer or even president.
Never try to force him into your favorite
idea of the proper career. That's a perfect
way to send him down that low road to
dangerous experimentation in the dark
alleys of life. He knows exactly what he
wants, and it's a serious mistake to impose
your will. Be loyal to him, and never break
your word or a promise.
He needs opportunities to work off his
gigantic supply of bottled-up energy because
he'll seem to be more calm and relaxed than
he really is inside. Displays of nerves,
arguments at mealtime and family squabbles
at bedtime will bring nightmares, and are
extremely detrimental to both his mental and
physical health. He has many intense
passions and boiling emotions to manage, and
subduing his volatile nature is a tough task
for him, but he'll control it beautifully
with careful guidance. Rough, thoughtless
scoldings that lack a logical explanation,
and permissive humoring are equally
disastrous. Scorpios are fascinated by
drugs, so keep them out of reach. Hell be
drawn to fire, too, so don't leave matches
around.
He'll love Halloween, monster shows on
TV, science-fiction and ghost stories. He'll
also be fond of the opposite sex. Don't be
shocked if you catch your five-year-old
Scorpio son making "mysterious eyes" at the
curly-headed first-grader next door. He's
going to be a Lover someday. You'll never
prevent that. But you can prevent some
future romantic tragedies by teaching both
sexes in adolescence the importance of
responsibility in affairs of the heart.
Scorpio deeply respects the family circle.
Explain that careless romantic behavior
destroys it, and he'll listen. Whatever he
becomes, he'll be the best in his chosen
field. The Scorpio youngster is determined
enough to get what he wants, and strong
enough to hang on to it. But don't let his
self-sufficiency keep you from giving him
your support. He needs it, even though he
appears to scorn approval. You'll have to
help him find a worthy goal toward which he
can direct the inner passions that threaten
to consume him. This is a strange,
enchanted child, with possibly an important
destiny, and he has miles to go before he
reaches it. Walk with him as long as he
needs you, then let him walk alone. He'll
return safely with whatever prize he seeks.
Pluto gives him great courage, strength and
intelligence, but it's up to you to give
him what he needs most: a daily example of
how to love-and be loved in return.
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"Keep your temper," said the
Caterpillar . . .
"You'll get used to it in time," and it
put the hookah into its mouth;
and began smoking again.
President Theodore Roosevelt's advice,
"Speak softly-but carry a big stick," is a
perfect example of Scorpio philosophy,
spoken by a Scorpio. Although "Teddy"
Roosevelt was the first one to say it, every
Pluto person is born with the phrase carved
into his nature. It's the invisible motto
hanging on the wall behind the desk of your
Scorpio boss. Memorize it. He has. I
wouldn't make a big issue out of discussing
it with him. Just watch him practice it.
Scorpios have a way of discouraging certain
personal questions about their own
techniques.
Life is a search for wisdom and power to
your soft-spoken Scorpio boss with the big
stick. He wants to know all the secrets of
heaven and hell-and whatever lies between.
Assumedly, you lie between. Therefore, he's
equally intent on learning your secrets, and
in seeking knowledge of what's going on in
your busy little brain, or your busy big
brain, as the case may be. He'll never press
you openly or actively to bare your soul,
but youll probably do it anyway. It's
inevitable. One good, long, steady gaze from
' his hypnotic Pluto eyes is enough to pull
out the deepest fconfessions. If you have
anything on your mind you'd |ather keep
strictly private, avoid looking into those
eyes pr avoid working for him.
I once knew a girl who was a singer. She
ran into her Icorpio boss at the airport one
summer afternoon, on his eturn from a trip
to California, and they stopped to have
offee. (Pluto power is often as its height
in the summer, or some inconsistent reason
that has nothing to do with November.) She
and a songwriter, who was a good friend
t>f the Scorpio, had just that morning
confessed to each bther that they were
deeply in love. Due to circumstances, the
discovery had to be kept secret.
As they chatted over coffee, the singer
was completely (^absorbed by the Scorpio's
anecdotes about his trip. His con-|versation
was so fascinating that she forgot all about
the |fateful meeting hours earlier. Finally,
the Scorpio glanced |at his watch; he was
late for an appointment with a pro-i ducer
about a mm he hoped to direct.
They clasped hands and she said goodbye,
adding, "I ; wish you luck." The Scorpio
continued to grip her hand, I looked deep
into her eyes with burning intensity, and
an-S swered slowly, "And I wish you love.
But I see you have S already found it.
That's good. You two are right together." I
Breaking the gaze first (as Scorpios always
do-they never | permit you to do it), he
released her hand, smiled his cool,
mysterious, controlled smile and walked
away. To this day, the girl can't understand
how he knew.
Let her experience be a lesson to you.
He'll discover your secret, too. It doesn't
have to be love. It can simply be that your
father dropped out of school in the eighth
grade, or your sister is dating a married
man, or you haven't made a payment in six
months on your bank loan, | or your Persian
cat is expecting again. Maybe you used a |
safety pin instead of sewing the button on
your coat, or | your brother hit your
sister-in-law on the head with a skillet
this morning. Little things like that you'd
just as | soon keep to yourself, but he'll
know. And somehow, you'll know that he
knows. It's different from the Pisces
penetra-| tion. The fish gets psychic
flashes. The Scorpio simply |. knows.
Psychic flashes have nothing to do with it.
Neither • does Aquarian intuition. It goes
much deeper.
This Pluto power also allows the Scorpio
boss to sense your moods, and he's the kind
of man who will sympathetically behave
according to those moods, which can be an
indescribably soothing experience.
Especially after constant exposure to
swift, thoughtless, shallow people who not
only don't know what's deep inside you, but
don't care enough one way or the other to
find out. Exposure to various forms of such
brittle indifference can make the Scorpio
empathy seem pretty wonderful by comparison,
which it is.
Contrary to what you might understandably
think, the office of a November boss isn't
always explosive or even necessarily
impressive. It may be the quietest, coolest,
calmest spot in the entire building. The
Pluto self-control reaches out to touch
everything around it. (Unless there's a
heavy Gemini, Aquarius or Leo influence in
his chart. Even so, things will seldom get
raucous or out of hand. The pace will be a
little quicker, that's all.) This man's
control over his own nature is awesome. He's
indefatigable in whatever he sets out to do,
and he prides himself on not letting people
know how deeply he wants or needs what he
seeks. His competitor will never suspect how
intensely your Scorpio boss desires to
conquer him until after it's a fait
accompli and Scorpio has won. He can see
into you, but no man can penetrate his
deepest feelings. One of your Pluto boss's
most powerful weapons is secrecy of purpose
and intent. He hides his emotions and
disguises his motives so totally that the
enemy is forever expecting an attack from
the rear-or no attack at all- and then being
surprised by a sudden movement from the
right flank, where it's least expected and
when it's least anticipated. That's what
wins ball games.
That's also what wins prestige and
success for the Scorpio executive. If he
likes you, there's no limit to what he'll do
to help you, advance you or push your hopes
and dreams to fulfillment, along with his.
If he doesn't like you, there's no point in
reading this. You'll never be hired in the
first place, or if someone else has hired
you, your employment under a Scorpio boss
won't last long. Pluto executives rarely
have either sympathy or mercy for those who
don't belong on the team. His first concern
will be the team (which is synonymous with
his personal goals), and individuals come
last. I'm well aware that those of you with
a Scorpio boss are already bristling in
defense. How could anyone accuse him of
anything less than perfection and purity,
right? Most people close to a Pluto person
have that attitude. If you don't, you're
probably filling in on
someone else's vacation.
This man has a way of attracting people
who are in-' tensely loyal. He's usually
surrounded by devoted friends, I with his
enemies removed to a safe distance (safe for
• them, that is). It's as if he drew
a circle. The chosen ' stand inside. Others
are kept away by some form of black j magic
that prevents their stepping too close for
comfort (his comfort, that is). It's
difficult, if not impossible for enemies to
readr him. Once those magnetic eyes have
sized up a person who falls short of the
requirements, he or she is banished. That
person simply does not exist to the Scorpio.
In his mind, you're not there. He neither
sees you nor hears you. His radar will tell
him if you get near enough to be
dangerous. It gives one an empty feeling to
be looked at as if you're not there. Being a
ghost can be uncomfortable, so after a while
the unwanted person fades away to where
people can see him and hear him-to where he
can exist as a flesh and blood human being
again.
Don't get the impression that, to
accomplish his miracles, the Scorpio boss
has to look like Dracula and breath® deadly
fumes from his nostrils. He needn't wear a
black cape to practice his mystery, nor does
he have to speak in sepulchral tones. If
you're about to embark on the adventure of
working for a Scorpio executive, the first
time you see him you'll think the whole
power thing is exaggerated.
His physique may very well be unimposing
and he may have the kind of smile you see
only on a stained-glass window. When it
flashes on, you'll melt, and think astrology
misled you. He'll appear to be about as
dangerous as an Irish washer-woman singing a
lullaby. Then hell fix you with his
penetrating blue or brown-eyed stare, and I
hope there's a chair nearby for you to drop
into. By that time, you'll be thoroughly
hypnotized by his magnetic charm. You might
even catch yourself weaving back and forth,
with almost imperceptible motion, awaiting
instructions. He now controls your emotions.
After that, no one can reach you. It's too
late. YouTI be blindly loyal to your new,
wonderful, kind, gentle, talented, brilliant
employer, and anyone who thinks he is
dangerous is a jealous, vindictive crackpot.
He's the sweetest boss anyone could ever
hope . to have.
Sweet? Use adjectives if you must, but
sweet? Wonderful, yes. Kind, yes.
Talented and brilliant-naturally. Sincere
and loyal, of course. Protective and gentle,
yes again. Loving? Oh, good heavens, yes. A
thousand times yes. But . sweet?
Emphatically no. I'd like to tell the
already Scorpio- • employed, plus you who
are about to pass through the portals, that
one of my closest friends is a Scorpio
composer of enormous talent, and I've
passed his magic circle test. There's also a
tiny Scorpio who lives in my house ! (you
notice I still have control-I didn't say I
lived in his house) and I'm kind of
close to him, too. So I'm not among the
enemies of your Scorpio boss. You can relax.
But thanks to astrology, I may understand
him a bit better than you do. For example,
I'll bet you think that, in a crisis, he
would just stand there calmly, wearing the
same smooth, detached look he puts on when
he gets out of his warm bed every morning.
He would not. He would undergo a compete
transformation.
Your Scorpio boss cannot tolerate
displays of emotion. He feels that one must
keep one's cool at all costs-I mean at all
costs. But if the emergency demands instant
and violent action (as some emergencies do),
he'll blast forth so much flaming action,
you'll be sure you aren't watching the same
man. When it's all over, and things are well
under control, his surging, passionate
emotions will be back under control again
also. He'll bottle them up inside his
powerful personality until they're needed
the next time.
Normally, however, he'll be the epitome
of deliberate, gentle, calculated placidity,
every hair in place, temper in total check.
The same Jekyll and Hyde transformation as
the foregoing can take place in the throes
of romantic passion as well as in a business
crisis, but of course that's not your
department-at least under ordinary
circumstances it's not. His calm mask of
poise is seldom removed, except for really
major events.
Don't make the mistake of flattering him
too often. Scorpio bosses are constantly
suspicious. He wakes up and goes to sleep
suspicious and his feelers are always out
for ulterior motives. In fact, one of his
weaknesses is that he's frequently
suspicious of innocent remarks from innocent
people. Polishing the deep red apple on his
desk with too much gusto can get you fired
instead of advanced. He may suspect you're
buttering him up to take over. An
occasional, sincerely meant recognition of
his superiority will be appreciated
deeply-just don't overdo it. His loyalty to
you will be lasting and all encompassing,
but never give him one millimeter less in
return. He's a stickler for money
transactions being spelled out in detail.
Never allow financial matters to get hazy
in any way. And never, never, never, never,
never try to top him or hurt him. If you
insist on disregarding that advice, then
you'd better practice walking on eggshells
for a few weeks first. Preferably eggshells
with a poisonous spider hidden among them.
Scorpio .a. revenge is not something to fool
around with.
No problem ever invented is so tough that
the Scorpio boss can't solve it, once he
tackles it. All Pluto people have the
ability to surmount tragedy or illness in
their personal lives and business disasters
with courage and superhuman will. As for the
pattern of his individual personality, it
will vary with the man more widely than with
other signs. Although he's the
personification of the scientific researcher
into inscrutable mystery, the all-purpose
detective, he him-| self remains the
greatest mystery of all.
Penetrating Pluto all the way is
impossible. Besides, even if you could,
you'd forget everything you learned when he
hypnotized you with his eyes and voice. The
best I can do is warn you to stay alert and
to keep an open mind. The first is for
defense purposes, naturally. The second is
so you can be receptive to a man whose truth
and courage you'll admire forever. Despite
his unfathomable, complex nature, and the
deceptive image he presents to the world,
your Scorpio boss never deceives himself.
How many of the rest of us can say that with
complete honesty? Even those of us who are
not considered "ruthless"?
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"But when you have to turn into a
chrysalis-
you will some day, you know-
and then after that into a butterfly,
I should think you'll feel it a little
queer,
•won't you?" "Not a bit," said the
Caterpillar.
Offhand, who would you say is the one
person in your office who is the most
self-contained? Which employee seems to have
the most inner confidence, without being
obvious about it, the steadiest eyes, the
least excuses and the most poise? If there's
someone on the staff with those qualities,
does he give you the feeling he can take a
compliment or leave it alone? Is he
secretive about his personal life? Does he
have a master plan for his future? Assuming
all this is true, one more question: are the
other employees a little afraid of him?
There's no doubt about it. He's a Scorpio.
More than anyone else with your firm, the
Scorpio employee is the master of his fate
and the captain of his soul. He's entirely
self-motivated and single-minded. No one
else can be so resourceful and so sure of
his own potential The Scorpio has the power
to make or break his own life, and he knows
it. He never lies to himself, and rarely
blames anyone but himself for his own
mistakes. To whatever degree he chooses,
this employee can rise, and hell expect few
favors on the way up. He's the very last
person you'd accuse of having an inferiority
complex. (Unless he happens to be a gray
lizard who has turned power inside out into
silent defeat. Even so, it was his decision
alone to do so. He was not a pawn of fate.)
It won't be easy to comprehend the
reasons behind his actions. You've heard
about the ruthlessness of this Sun sign, his
desire for revenge, the Pluto determination
to even the score, and it may puzzle you
that these qualities seem to be missing in
his relationship with you. They're not
missing. They've been put on ice for the
present, because the end justifies the
means in his one-track, keen mind. He knows
exactly what he's doing, but you may not.
Your Scorpio employee's reaction to you
will relate directly to what you can offer
him-what he wants from you and from life. If
the average person opposes the Scorpio,
insults him, treats him rudely, breaks a
promise or steps on his tail, may the gods
have mercy on him. He will rue the day he
challenged Pluto. However, if you represent
power and the fulfillment of his private
dream, his reaction to the same treatment
will be detachment. If you have something
Scorpio wants and needs, he'll take almost
anything from you with deliberate
tranquility, and with-believe it or not-no
retaliation or defensive stinging. The very
fact that he's able to control his deep
resentment and literally erase it from his
mind is proof of his awesome inner strength.
Before you test the theory, make sure you
know into which category you fall-the
average person-which can include ordinary
bosses, friends, neighbors, co-workers,
servants, even relatives and loved ones-or
someone who represents power, security and
that private dream. Unless you're positive
you fit the latter description, it may be
dangerous to experiment.
Let's say you're a TV producer, and
you've commissioned a Scorpio writer to
create a script, tailored to certain
specifications. After the fourth re-write,
you can still tear his efforts to shreds and
demand that he try again. You can say, "It
stinks. Put more jokes in." What will the
dangerous Scorpio do? He'll write another
draft and put more jokes in. You have
something he wants, you see. You have the
power to produce his script on film and make
it live. He may not agree with you
completely from an artistic point of view,
but you're the boss. You're the one who
calls the shots-at the present. Later, when
he's a success? You won't have to nervously
wonder when he'll seek revenge for the past.
That's not part of the Pluto code. You have
given him power and you were the instrument
to fufill his private dream. He holds no
bitterness, but he'll make it clear his
position is now changed and you're not to
question his artistic taste or dictate how
he expresses his creative ideas in the
future. You'll get the message, and that
will be that. Anyone other than you who
criticized his earlier efforts, however,
without regard for his sensitive pride, may
have a few scars to show.
If there's one thing a Scorpio knows,
it's on which side his bread is buttered,
and who owns the marmalade. He's absolutely
certain he will reach his goals eventually.
Therefore, he's in no rush to knock down
any brick buildings. Nor is he ashamed to
submit to his superiors when it's expedient
to do so. That's why your Scorpio employee
is fearless. Confidence always breeds
courage. To him, everything is timing. With
some sort of deep, mystical penetration
into the secrets of the universe, he knows
when his time will come. This is not the
hour to command, but the hour will arrive.
No wonder he's not the anxious type.
I know a young Scorpio lawyer, who
recently became associated with an
important law firm, loaded with prestige and
lucrative clients. His superior (and I'll
use an anonymous name), Mr. Fink of Fink,
Brink, Link and Katz, asked him to prepare a
lengthy memorandum for a corporate merger.
The request meant that the Scorpio lawyer
would get no sleep at all, because Mr. Fink
insisted he needed the papers for a
conference at ten sharp the following
morning. The next day, our hero was at his
desk at nine a.m., alert, calm, and waiting
for Mr. Fink to buzz him. He had stayed up
all night completing the necessary briefs,
and his wife wasn't too happy because he had
to cancel the dinner reservations he had
made earlier in the week to celebrate their
anniversary. At nine forty-five his boss's
secretary apologetically informed him
that Mr. Fink had changed his mind. He had
decided to hold the conference the
following week. It was such lovely spring
weather, he thought he'd play a few holes of
golf with some clients from out of town. She
murmured that her boss had said something
about "hoping it didn't cause him too
much inconvenience." You may suppose that,
at this point, the Scorpio reached into his
desk for a .45 automatic and headed for the
golf course. But that's not the way the
cookie crumbled. How did the Scorpio react
to such boorish behavior? He simply
shrugged. He smiled a cool, mysterious
controlled smile, handed the secretary the
finished memorandum, and said courteously,
"Will you put this on Mr. Fink's desk
please? I am going home to get a few hours
sleep. I'll be back in time for my two
o'clock appointment." Then, with the
patience of Taurus and the discipline of
Capricorn, he called his wife, told her he
would be home for lunch and left. Moral:
That Scorpio lawyer is aiming for a
partnership at Fink, Brink, Link and Katz.
Are you wondering if his wife had his lunch
ready on time, after her disappointment the
night before? Of course she had his lunch
ready on time. The wife of a Scorpio? If she
wanted to have any more anniversaries to
celebrate, she did. She's not his boss. Mr.
Fink is his boss. This year.
If you're important enough to the future
of your Scorpio employee, you too can be a
Mr. Fink. It's on a par with being immune to
nuclear power, but I don't think you should
let it turn your head to the place where you
get over-confident. If I were you, I'd keep
incidents like the foregoing at the absolute
minimum. But I'm glad I'm not you. I'm not
sure I would have the nerve to play Russian
roulette with Pluto.
You can expect the Scorpio man or woman
to accept the inevitable with grace, if the
stakes are high enough. He (or she) will
check out the potential with an eagle eye,
figure the consequences, mark the possible
reward, and make the final decision to
submit with a cool head and a definite
purpose in mind. Most bosses appreciate and
admire the Scorpio philosophy. He knows the
price of success, and he's willing to pay
it without asking for special concessions.
When that success arrives, however, don't
forget: it's half-time-change sides.
Compared to the attitude of the average
worker, youll discover there's another
quality to admire in your Scorpio employee.
It's an old-fashioned word, spelled
1-o-y-a-l-t-y, rather a rare commodity these
days. I'm not talking about lip service to
your position as "boss" or the ingratiating,
often hypocritical servility of the normal
ambitious employee. Scorpios have their own
sense of loyalty.
When I was with a radio station in a
small town in Pennsylvania, I was
permanently impressed with the remark of a
Scorpio program director. The owner of the
radio station was the meanest man in town.
He was a cross between Scrooge and Captain
Hook. About the nicest thing you could say
about him was that at times he was meaner
than he was at other times. He had one
friend-his mother. Since he owned half the
town, in addition to the station, he was
smothered with respect and obedience.
Although the Staff called him "Sir," smiled
from ear to ear when he entered a room, and
jumped to immediate attention every tmie he
mumbled the slightest request, they made
faces at hiln when his back was turned, and
snickered privately at his, funny bow ties
and squeaky voice. They would have
considered his funeral an occasion for a
holiday, and the favorite game around the
office when he was out of town Wiis writing
his obituary, with a prize for the most
hilarious one.
The Scorpio employee never joined the
game. He was always too busy with his
programming. One day, a secretary asked him
why he never contributed to the office
hc>bby. He gave her one of those hypnotic
Scorpio stares and said, simply, "He pays my
salary. I work for him."
"What's that got to do with it?" she
wanted to know. "lie yells at you in front
of the staff every morning and hfr, hasn't
given you a vacation for two years. He never
piiys you a compliment. Don't you have any
pride?"
The Scorpio never changed his expression.
"I can't deposit compliments at the bank,"
he said quietly. "I prefer C£ish."
"But why do you take the way he treats
you?" she persisted.
His answer was brief. "When I take a
man's money, I t^ke his orders. When I
decide to stop taking his orders, I stop
taking his money and leave. Do you have the
program schedule for next week? I need to
check it before -• I time the commercials."
The secretary silently handed him the
schedule, he took Out his stop watch and
went to work. A few days later, she a<sked
him to bring her a coffee when he returned
from lunch. Somehow, he forgot to bring it.
He also forgot to s^nd her an invitation to
his wedding the following spring. K[e
remembered her insinuation that he had no
pride. Scorpions have long memories. That's
an excellent illustra-tiion of how and when
the typical Pluto employee chooses t<o seek
revenge-against whom and why. It also
indicates hiis personal code of loyalty to
the man who employs him.
These workers are intense and tenacious.
They're quite Sterious about their careers,
and they never lose sight of the g;oal.
Scorpios can be stubborn, rebellious,
passionate and overbearing. But you won't
often find them wasting office time by
writing humorous obituaries. Death is a
serious s'ubject to them. So are you. You're
the bridge to power. consequently, you're
respected, until the Scorpio has safely
passed across the stream to the other side.
Smart strategists don't destroy bridges, and
Scorpios are smart. Some of them are
brilliant. All of them are shrewd and
logical. You'll often find Scorpio men and
women gravitating to work that involves
solving mysteries and penetrating the
puzzles of life, machines, facts or human
beings. Lots of them are detectives,
psychiatrists, scientists, surgeons,
policemen, researchers, reporters and even
undertakers. They must increase their
knowledge each day they live, at the same
rate they increase talents, abilities and
incomes.
Never pry into Scorpio's private affairs.
He will not tolerate that. If he likes you
and his job, he'll be generous and fair.
Hell give you eight hours work for eight
hours pay, and he won't watch the clock if
the project holds his interest. But remember
that he will always be firmly committed to
his own code and ideas. He will be true to
them above all other loyalties, including
love and ambition. No one but himself can
force him to alter his views and opinions.
It has to be done through Pluto power, from
inside his own nature. If his decision is
negative, no one on the face of this earth
can slam the door more suddenly or more
permanently than a Scorpio, even a door
bearing the title Vice-President in
gold-leaf letters. He'll take just so much,
pay just so high a price. When he thinks the
cost is too much, he leaves. That's the way
he plays the game. His real loyalty,
when all is said and done, is to himself.
That's not always as selfish as it sounds.
When he was very young, his favorite verse
began: "This above all: to thine own self be
true." He's always figured-if he does that-
he can't be false to anyone.
"You may charge me with murder- or
want of sense (We are all of us weak at
times):
But the slightest approach to a false
pretence was never among my crimes!"